Deborah's Thoughts and Answers to common questions.
Many people ask Deborah:
"Why won't they answer me when I ask for signs?"
The answer to that is - THEY ANSWER US ALL THE TIME and make their presence known all the time. It is US who fail to see them. When you ask them for a "sign" you will get your answer 100% of the time! Sometimes we DO see the sign and then attribute it to coincidence. NO! We must trust ourselves. This is the only way you can get a conversation with your loved ones started. THIS IS YOUR SIGN. Believe them.
"Where are they?"
I know this is hard to grasp and believe, especially when you are in mourning, but they are everywhere. It is just like air, it can be many places all at once, we never see it, but we do know it is there. In physics there is a law that states that 'nothing can be created or destroyed'; everything that is, always was and always will be! We all possess a 'soul' a 'spirit' 'Atman' 'energy' whatever you want to call it, that is within us. It is the essence of who we are- the part of God, the Universal energy that came into our bodies to experience a certain aspect of itself. We are the manifestation of God itself. So when we die, our soul returns to the 'source' - the Universal Source of Knowingness, of Energy. This source allows us to be present in those here on the 'earthly' plane and know what is going on even though we don't 'see' them.
"Why can't we see them?"
The funny thing is that we really can see them. They have shown up in photographs, on video screens, audio tapes.. etc. Sometimes, when you see something out of the corner of your eye and you just 'know' it was a person- that was them! Other times, we (including myself!) are choosing not to see them. If you ask to see them, you will!
"Are they OK?"
This question ALWAYS baffles me - I want everyone to know that all of your loved ones are OK. They have returned to the source and are very happy. Sometimes they admit frustration in us for either not seeing their signs, or for not following through with our life's plan after their death.
They want all of us to know they are around us; talk to them frequently, and enjoy YOUR life. No guilt. No sadness. No anger. They now have pure unconditional love for us - more than ever before.
"Do they know 'so and so' who wasn't born while they were alive?"
Yes!! In fact, they probably 'met' the child before YOU did! Remember, we all come from the same place that we are going to- so yes. They made sure the RIGHT child came to you. There is a very deep connection to the children- always.
